I thought I may as well get all the taboos out there for discussion this week. In the wake of football sex scandals in Australia, attention has also focussed on the group sex practices of the young and shifting attitudes towards it. Yet dischordant voices are still heard. One young woman confesses, "It felt really good at the time but afterwards I felt cheated and used." So I have a question: in a post-Christendom era, what should the Christian stance be towards non-Christians?