What is apologetics?
‘Apologetics is telling someone why you’re sorry you’re a Christian’
‘Apologetics is making someone sorry he asked why you were a Christian’
Is that true?
Given recent discussions on apologetics I though maybe I should elaborate on what I understand apologetics to be all about. In this respect I am indebted to John Stackhouse Jr. who has written what I consider to be the most excellent book on the subject, certainly the most excellent book I’ve read so far anyway. It’s called ‘Humble Apologetics’, and yes, that’s not an oxymoron.
So what is apologetics? Stackhouse writes:
‘Usually, of course, apologetics has been understood to be a branch of theology or philosophy, of rational investigation or argumentation … however, I want to explore apologetics beyond these modes since, again, Christianity itself speaks to much more than the intellect. Thus I suggest that anything that helps people take Christianity more seriously than they did before, anything that helps defend and commend it, properly counts as apologetics…’
Underline that word anything. If someone were to ask me ‘why do you follow Jesus?’ whatever I say next is an apologetic response. If my response is a highly formal legal-historical defence, yes that is apologetics. But if my response is an informal, ‘well because the teachings of Jesus strike me as beautiful and helpful’, well that is just as much an apologetic response too. The question I have is: What makes a good apologetic? What makes a person glad they asked?
Here are some guidelines I would offer the Emerging Church
Listen if you’d like to be listened to. Actually this goes way beyond passive listening. The real art is active listening. Drawing out the deep questions that people didn’t even know they had. Show people you truly value their questions. Show people you truly value them. That is a good apologetic practice.
Inform, don’t assume people understand. It is amazing how many difficulties people have with Christianity are based on false pictures of Christianity. It could be a hated denominational idiosyncrasy they have projected onto the movement as a whole. It maybe something that’s a complete misconstrual of Christianity teaching and practice altogether. Wouldn’t it be a shame if we put together some hugely creative alt worship installations yet failed to connect simply because we assumed too much and didn’t take the time to make sure we’re on the same page? I see this happen all the time with generic use of the word ‘god’.
Offer, don’t demand. Stackhouse writes, “No human being knows anything for certain. So we don’t argue with our neighbours as if we have ‘evidence that demands a verdict’. Instead we simply offer what reasons and stories and aspirations we have. But just because we cannot know everything or prove our case with absolute certainty does not mean we can be content to know little and demonstrate even less. All this means is that we are called to do the best we can given the actual limitations of the situation, including our own.”
Reason, in so far as it’s reasonable. Remember that we are post-rationalists, not anti-rationalists. Reason still has its place within post-modern discourse even if it no longer takes pride of place. There are limits to logic, true. But there is no virtue in refusing to explore questions of logic when people honestly raise them, or offering logical explanations when they would honestly help. Even Derrida used logic when it suited him. So be ready to reason when it’s appropriate.
Even if we don’t establish our way is certainly true, is it even plausibly true? Issues of certainty aside, is Christianity even on the shelves in the spiritual supermarket? In some quarters it is considered so false, bad and ugly, that it’s the last option that people would consider. Sometime apologetics is about little more than establishing basic street cred.
The beauty and goodness of our way is as much an issue as the truth of it. A lot of people seem to be under the impression that apologetics is all about the truth and nothing but the truth. But that’s not true. Russia was converted through exposure to Orthodox icons which convinced the opinion leaders that Christianity was a beautiful pathway. Note that a big reason why I oppose Christian kitsch is because it is so apologetically horrendous. And consider goodness. A correct paedophile is still a paedophile. No one is going to be converted by a pervert, no matter how well he reasons. Re-establishing some basic ethical credibility is one of the most important apologetic issues facing western Christianity today.
Arouse curiosity, don’t be pushy. Arousing curiosity in the message of Christ is apologetics too. All I’ll say here is that this is totally behind our use of tarot cards in gospel presentations at alternate spirituality festivals. And I am talking about the genuine Rider-Waite deck. It sure gets people asking questions.
Respect the journey of the person, always. This can be difficult but consider how weird bodily resurrection sounds to non-Christians.
Respectful disagreement is not an oxymoron. Honouring a person’s questions does not mean we have to say, “yeah sure that’s cool”, to everything they say. We should be open to critiquing individuals as well as society. The important thing is to make sure it is constructive and caring.
Focus on Jesus. Again Stackhouse writes, “People should become Christians primarily because they want to follow Jesus as the way, the truth and the life. So leave aside secondary issues if you can. To put this another way, avoid the popular apologetic zones located at the beginning and end of the Bible. And avoid airy abstractions about “religion-in-general” if we can move to consider the specific and supremely important person of Jesus Christ. Various apologetic problems change when referred to the subject of Jesus. The problem of God and evil, for one, changes dramatically when the discussion changes to God-as-presented-in-Jesus and evil.”
Worship God. Remember, if you are loving God and loving your neighbour through apologetic conversations, that is worship, in Spirit and in truth. Offer your conversations up to God in the spirit of worship.







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