Curious Christian

I want to address some of the language Alf Hickey used on Facebook yesterday, and denounce it without reservation. In particular, Alf’s use of the “Jezebel” slur against women who dared to disagree with him. Non-Christians may not be familiar with it, but I want to make it clear to everyone: disrespect like that will not be tolerated here.

Labeling assertive women as having a “Jezebel spirit” has become a way to silence strong, capable women—a tactic that’s not only unfair but deeply unbiblical. Jezebel, in the Old Testament, was indeed a violent, idolatrous queen who led Israel astray, and in Revelation, the term “Jezebel” reappears as a symbol of false teaching (Revelation 2:20). But these references don’t provide a basis for weaponizing “Jezebel” against women who simply speak up, lead, or question unjust practices. To equate any assertive woman with Jezebel is a shallow reading of Scripture, one that ignores the Bible’s nuanced view of women’s roles and contributions.

Consider Jesus’ own approach to women. He didn’t silence them; he welcomed them as disciples, entrusted them with his message, and gave them dignity in a culture that often sidelined them. He openly affirmed women like Mary of Bethany who sat at his feet to learn, and he chose women as the first witnesses to his resurrection. Jesus wasn’t threatened by women’s strength or wisdom; he celebrated it.

What’s concerning is that calling women “Jezebels” today seems more about control than genuine discernment. When men or institutions misuse this term to put women “back in their place,” it reflects fear and insecurity rather than Christlike love. If we’re following Jesus, we should be encouraging each other’s gifts, not suppressing them. Paul reminds us to “speak the truth in love” (Ephesians 4:15) and to test our own hearts first.

The Spirit of God has empowered women throughout Scripture, from Deborah and Esther to Priscilla and Junia, all of whom served with courage and conviction. Instead of forcing a label rooted in fear and misunderstanding, we’re called to recognize and celebrate women who seek God’s truth, even if they challenge the status quo. That’s the heart of Jesus.